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articles, dating videos and a comprehensive site map.
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plus dating and relationship advice that you can trust in the form of
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One of our main aims is to help you feel good. We intend to
achieve this by offering you a range of products to help with your
feeling of well being and to help in your dating and relationship
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Halloween Section, here you will find over 200 categories of Halloween and
Fancy Dress items plus accessories
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The Greatest Love of All Lyrics
Loving Yourself
by Jayne Waldorf
When
we were children, loving yourself was unheard of and we were taught that
thinking of yourself or your needs was selfish. Little wonder really
that we arrived at the door of adulthood with next to no self esteem,
self confidence or self worth and more than our fair share of unwanted
baggage. Early experiences shape your core beliefs and only you can
change them. To have a healthy balanced life we all need to learn to
love ourselves. Loving yourself is the greatest love of all.
Loving yourself is not about being egotistical, selfish, self-centred or
arrogant. It is not comparing yourself with others to see if you’re good
enough. It’s not about looking after number one and it’s certainly not
about getting your own way. It about loving yourself every minute of the
day, being kind to yourself, and being aware of your needs and how you
feel. Acting and speaking to yourself only in loving ways. Love
yourself for who you are, for your weak points as well as your strong
ones. It’s our little imperfections that make us all individuals! Think
of how you are with the person in your life that is most special to you
and then treat yourself the same, if not better.
To
love yourself is to pay attention to your wants and needs in every area
of your life. When you go to bed at night why not ask yourself how you
feel and what you can do to better any situation. So many times we just
put our heads down and plod on with things unaware of the effect it is
having on us. The answer may be something as simple as to step back a
little from whatever situation and collect yourself again. When you love
yourself you are less likely to let anyone take advantage of you –who
needs people that just sour your life and don’t bring anything good into
it? Don’t be the person that is so desperate to be loved that they will
tolerate anything in a relationship. Don’t allow yourself to be treated
with anything less than love and respect. If you believe you deserve
less then snap out of it, someone has made you believe this and you can
change it. It’s your choice. We all make mistakes and we all deserve to
be loved. You can love yourself and your partner is there so you can
enrich each others lives, you do not need to be treated in unloving,
disrespectful ways.
Take
Care of yourself and nourish your body, exercise regularly, if you don’t
fancy the gym then at least move about a bit. Find your own ways that
please you – have a dance when a favourite tune comes on the radio,
swing those hips when you do the dusting, do some leg raises when your
sat watching the telly, the possibilities are endless. Eat healthy food
where possible . Be gentle with yourself and be your own best friend not
your own worst enemy. Remember to like yourself if you don’t like
yourself you can’t love yourself. Do not allow your self talk (the
things that you say to yourself in your head) to become negative. It is
so destructive to call yourself a fool ,idiot or loser. Instead reward
yourself when you do or say something right. Treat yourself to a night
out, go dancing, dinner out, theatre or a movie. Sometimes as we are all
aware the cash just isn’t there for treats but it doesn’t have to cost
much to make yourself feel special. A take out at home with low lights
or candlelight and soft music or even get your partner to cook your
favourite meal. A pedicure, manicure or facial are all quite therapeutic,
my favourite is a bubble bath lit by candles. If you have neglected
yourself for too long you may have to experiment to find things that
really please you.
The
more that you love yourself you will find the more love you will have to
give. Love from someone else can make you feel great one day and perhaps
rejected the next, but when you love yourself it’s always there within
you because it really is The Greatest Love of All.
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